Lunch in the park
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 10
Tuesday, July 15, 2008
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 8
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 7
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 5
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 4
Monday, July 14, 2008
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 3
Survey Trip in Pictures: June 1
Sunday, July 13, 2008
Survey Trip in Pictures: May 31
Friday, July 11, 2008
Post-Survey Trip Reflections
- Convenience is king in America. I mean really -- life is ridiculously easy and convenient here. One-stop shopping... drive-through everything... online banking... salad in a bag... need I say more?
- Tevas are a really wonderful sandal and well-worth the investment. I bought my first pair this summer just before we left and was so pleased with how comfortable they were and how well they supported my feet. Definitely five stars.
- I am amazed at how many toddler behavior issues are related to either a) sleep deprivation or b) being in an unfamiliar environment and unsure of the rules / boundaries.
- I must have intestines of steel (or maybe just a really great immune system), seeing as I was the only one who didn't have stomach trouble at all while we were there.
- Learning Portuguese is going to be an absolute necessity in order to live with any sort of functionality in Angola.
- I have a new appreciation for simple things like green grass, paved roads, clean running water... and garbage trucks.
- We Americans are extraordinarily wasteful, as a general rule.
- I don't know how we would have survived traveling in Africa with a two-year-old without this and this.
- Driving in Africa requires a video game mentality -- and lots of prayer.
- Children's television programming is awesome and will definitely be missed when we move to Angola. Thankfully, we can get many of Alex' favorite shows on DVD.
- Our king-size bed and wonderful Stearns and Foster mattress is just as comfy as I remembered longingly during our five weeks away from home. We are bringing this bed to Africa with us!
- At the end of a long, hot, dusty, sweaty day, a hot meal and a hot shower make everything better.
- Harry Potter and "LOST" are great stress relievers!
- This trip revealed a secret addiction to Dr. Pepper! I really missed it!
- Bourneville chocolate is just as delicious as I remembered, growing up in Kenya.
- No matter how well they mix-n-match, wearing the same four shirts, the same three skirts, and one pair of pants gets very old after awhile.
- I have a new appreciation for the HUGSR laundry room after one time of washing our clothes by hand in big washtubs. I told myself I would not complain about it anymore... which lasted until today when one of the washers ate over $2 in quarters. Okay, so I will try not to complain about it as much.
- The missionary community is a wonderful thing.
- It is such a blessing to find brothers and sisters in Christ, no matter where you are in the world.
- A smile translates into any language.
- Although I grew up in Africa and this was Rusty's fourth trip, we both found that we were seeing it in an entirely different light now that we had our own child along -- but that is probably a separate blog post.
- Funny how a trip to Africa made both of us "homesick" for Japan. I know one thing -- after bouncing over bumpy roads for hours on end, we were sure thinking longingly of onsens.
- Hiding a pill in a spoonful of jam is a very painless way to get a toddler to swallow it!
- I am really looking forward to the day when we are no longer the only parents on the team.
- And finally... Angola will be a difficult place to live and work, but the need is great and the workers are few. Someone asked if we are "having second thoughts" now that we have been there. The honest answer is no, but we are "counting the cost," if that makes any sense.
Thursday, July 03, 2008
You Know You're In Africa When... (Part 2)
- the owner of your taxi sends along a mechanic on your trip because he knows the car will most likely break down along the way.
- you take a leak behind a bush by the side of the road while said mechanic is repairing said broken down taxi.
- your taxi's rear door is tied shut with a piece of rope, and its hubcaps are held on with zip ties.
- you see women carrying their groceries or their wares on their heads and their babies on their backs.
- you wear a kerchief over your hair to protect it from all the dust.
- you spray your bedroom for mosquitoes before going to bed and sleep under a mosquito net.
- the phrase "in ten minutes" really means "in the next hour or two" or even "sometime today."
- you see chickens, goats, and pigs walking down the road in the capital city.
- "good" and "nice" are relative terms, especially when describing roads and bathrooms.
- sweeping dirt somehow makes it clean.
- a 5-6 hour bus ride ends up taking 12 hours due to multiple breakdowns.
- after said 12-hour bus trip over dusty roads, your child's bathwater is brown at the end of his bath from the layers of caked-on dirt.
- power outtages (for no apparent reason) are a common occurence.
- you plan your use of any electrical appliance around when the generator will be on.
- you do your laundry by hand (okay, so I only had to do this once), and hang it out to dry.
- a real American hamburger is one of the highlights of your week.
- you make your own tortillas for taco night.
- sunscreen, bug repellent, and hand sanitizer become three things you never leave home without.
- you don't measure distance in miles or kilometers, but in how long it takes to get there, because as everyone knows, maps are deceiving!
- your Seventh Day Adventist neighbors play obnoxiously loud Christian music until the wee hours of the morning, and no one tells them to shut up (guess who was hoping for a power outtage that night?)
- you stay at a nice hotel with a nice pool -- that has no water in it.
- you take a malaria pill every Sunday.
- the person who looks through your bags at the airport asks for your cookies.
- you bargain with vendors at the market.
- people call you "mama" and "sister" even though you aren't their mother or their sister (I don't know why, but this has always annoyed me).
- you huddle in a tight circle with four other people around a computer screen to watch the season finale of one of your favorite TV shows. (Have I mentioned how amazed I am that this was even possible? Technology is a wonderful thing!)
- you plan to arrive at the airport several hours before your flight is scheduled to depart.
- a man is smoking just in front of a no smoking sign, and a police officer standing ten feet away says not a word.
We are back from Africa, but I thought I would go ahead and share the remainder of my list. I really had fun with it. Those of you who have lived, are living, or have ever visited Africa -- if you can think of something I left out, feel free to leave a comment below.
Tuesday, July 01, 2008
Survey Trip: The Journey Home
Sunday, June 29th – We arrived at London Heathrow just before 7:00 a.m. We met the rest of the team, minus Danny and Nathan (who stayed in Luanda for a couple of weeks) at the airport -- they had flown direct from Luanda to London. Our flight from London to Chicago left just before 1:00 p.m. We arrived in Chicago at 3:00 p.m., and were out of the airport and to our hotel by 5:00. Total travel time (from the time we left the Baptist guest house to the time we were in our hotel room): just over 41 hours. We were TIRED!
Monday, June 30th – We left the hotel at 6:30 a.m. We flew from Chicago to Atlanta, then Atlanta to Memphis, arriving just before 1:00 p.m. Katie and Jordan met us at the airport. We stopped at Sonic on the way home for drinks (Route 44 strawberry-limeade, baby -- been craving it for a month!) and ice cream. We were back at the HUGSR campus by 3:00. It is wonderful to be home!
Survey Trip: Week Four
Sunday, June 22nd – We worshiped with another ICA church today. The service lasted until 1:30. Alex did well for the most part. He got very restless towards the end. After that, they fed us lunch. Most of the group spent the afternoon visiting with some of the leaders while Teague and I watched Alex play outside. We didn't leave until after 4:00, and then we went to see two other churches on the way home. It was a very long and exhausting day – our last Sunday in Angola.
Monday, June 23rd – Most of the group spent the day downtown. Rusty, Alex, Katie, and I spent the morning at home and headed downtown after Alex' nap. We had planned to meet up at the old slave fortress turned museum. Once we arrived, we found out that everyone else had gone to watch a soccer game. The four of us walked around the fortress for awhile, then headed out to the Ilha (peninsula) for dinner at a Chinese restaurant. The restaurant ended up being closed, so we ate at Bob's Burgers (a Brazilian fast-food chain). They had a nice play area for Alex, and we didn't have to pay for it! The rest of the group came to Bob's after the game and we all went home together where we enjoyed chai and Katie's homemade apple pie!
Tuesday, June 24th – I was feeling a bit under the weather this morning, so Alex and I enoyed a day at home. The rest of the group headed up to Caxito, a city north of Luanda, for the day. We thought Caxito would be close enough to allow us to work in and around Luanda, but far enough away to make living there a bit more affordable. But we should have known better than to be fooled by distances on a map. The trip to Caxito took about 3.5 hours, one way. So, the group spent 7 hours in the car and about 1.5 hours in town looking around. Needless to say, I don't think we'll be living in Caxito.
Wednesday, June 25th – Katie, Jordan, Teague, and I attended a women's worship service in the morning. I was going to speak to the women, but they could not locate a translator (or at least one who could translate from English to Portuguese -- there was one who could have translated from French to Portuguese). So, we ended up singing a few songs, which they seemed to enjoy. They served us lunch, and then we went home. Some of the group visited a few more ICA churches in the afternoon. For dinner, we grilled out hamburgers for the Jensens and McHaneys -- our way to say thank you to these missionary familes in Luanda who have been so good to us!
Thursday, June 26th -- We visited two ICA churches and the Assemblies of God seminary where several of the ICA ministers have received their training. This was followed by lunch with Andre Banda, the "president" of ICA and his wife. It was our last night to be all together as a team, so we made pizza, played cards, and just enjoyed some down time.
Friday, June 27th – Danny left for Zambia very early in the morning. Some of the group went to the mall to have lunch and see a movie. Rusty, Alex, and I stayed home and focused on packing since we were leaving very early the next morning.
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Survey Trip: Week Three
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Survey Trip: Week Two
Sunday, June 8th – We worshiped with an ICA church in Benguela and enjoyed our time with them. Alex nearly got clipped by a motorcycle after the service while he was playing outside – very scary moment. In the afternoon, we wanted to visit a local beach called Baia Farta (and, yes, I believe we cracked about every joke in the book and then some about the name). Baia Farta definitely lived up its name! It was about the nastiest beach I have ever been on – piles of burning garbage, piles of drying fish, and of course, flies everywhere. We quickly decided to try another beach called Baia Azul, and this one proved much more pleasant. Getting home that night was quite the adventure. Our driver basically ditched us, and we could never find a taxi because we were pretty far out of town, so Rusty eventually flagged a passing car. The driver turned out to be a friendly Portuguese man who, along with his brother, managed to get us all back to the YWAM compound safely.
Monday, June 9th – We took a bus from Benguela to Lubango. For an entertaining account of our day (and a lesson on why NOT to rely on public transportation in Africa), please visit Teague's blog. We arrived in Lubango safely after an extremely long day, and were very glad to be warmly welcomed by the missionary community there.
Tuesday, June 10th – Teague and Jordan spent the day at the mission hospital. The rest of us did laundry, visited with the missionaries on the compound where we were staying, and spent some time in downtown Lubango. We had yummy hamburgers for lunch at a hole-in-the-wall (literally) restaurant, very popular among the expat community.
Wednesday, June 11th – Team prayer-time in the morning, followed by our first moto-taxi (motorcycle taxi) rides! It was pretty fun (Alex stayed home with Robert and Teague)! We spent more time in downtown Lubango, then had lunch with the Holden's, long-time missionaries to Angola, out at their house, which is still under construction. Later that afternoon, Rusty and Danny went to the mission hospital while the rest of us headed up to the Cristo Rei statue that overlooks Lubango.
Thursday, June 12th – We enjoyed a day just to relax at home before beginning the next part of our journey. We did laundry, emailed, and blogged, and Alex got a good nap in. We had dinner with one of the professors at ISTEL (the interdenominational seminary) and his family.
Friday, June 13th – We flew from Lubango to Huambo on a small 10-seater plane that the team chartered with MAF (Missions Aviation Fellowship). We arrived in time for lunch at a local restaurant, where we met Justin Pearce, an English journalist who now lives in Huambo. We found a guest house with enough beds for all of us for the night. Rusty, Alex, and I stayed back for the afternoon to rest while the rest of the team went out to explore the town.
Thursday, June 12, 2008
Survey Trip: Week One
Sunday, June 1st – We spent the day with one of the ICA churches in Luanda. We worshipped with them; then they served us lunch. That afternoon, we visited a couple of other churches and met some of their leaders.
Monday, June 2nd – Most of the guys went into town to meet with some of the ICA leaders. Rusty stayed home because he had some sort of stomach bug. I enjoyed some time just to relax, write in my journal, and do some laundry. And Alex got to take a real nap for the first time in almost a week!
Tuesday, June 3rd – We spent the day in downtown Luanda. It took two hours to get there and even longer coming home because there was so much traffic and congestion. We walked on the waterfront, had pizza at an Italian restaurant, met with the Secretary for Religious Affairs, and registered at the U.S. Embassy.
Wednesday, June 4th – We began the drive from Luanda south to Lobito and Benguela (also on the coast). We didn't leave until about 2:00 p.m., and after a couple of breakdowns, it was dark and we were only halfway to our destination. When our second wheel bearing gave out, we decided to call it quits for the night. We were in a fairly large town, so found a hotel with two rooms for all of us to crash in.
Thursday, June 5th – We got up early and finished the drive to Lobito (the mechanic replaced the wheel bearing while we were all sleeping). We met with one of our contacts in Benguela for awhile, then got lunch and drove out to the YWAM (Youth with a Mission) compound where we were staying. Most everyone else went back into town for the afternoon. Katie, Alex, and I stayed back and all got good naps.
Friday, June 6th – We met with a realtor who showed us several housing options and gave us prices and other helpful information. After a late lunch, we walked down to the waterfront and spent some time just walking on the beach and playing in the waves. There are some really lovely beaches here, and the best part is they are not overrun by tourists (yet)!
London Vacation
Monday, May 26th – We left Memphis about 10:30 a.m. We had a layover in Cincinnati, then another layover in Chicago. We flew out of Chicago at 8:30 p.m. We were all tired, having not gotten much sleep the night before, so we slept most of the way to London.
Tuesday, May 27th – We arrived in London about 9:00 a.m. Unfortunately, our bags did not, but they were delivered later that day. After we picked up our rental car, we drove out to where we were staying at the Wycliffe Center. We spent the rest of the afternoon trying to stay awake, to avoid jet lag. We had dinner at the Center (Alex fell asleep at the table), then came back to our room and just crashed.
Wednesday, May 28th – We drove out to the Cotswolds, a truly beautiful part of the English countryside. It was foggy most of the day, but we still enjoyed seeing the little villages with their stone houses and winding streets. We had lunch at a very cool old English pub, and the food was delicious. We went to a grocery store and bought food and had dinner back in our room that night.
Thursday, May 29th (our 9th anniversary) – We spent the day at Warwick Castle – very cool! Rusty and Alex had never been. We walked around for a bit, then bought lunch and ate it on the grounds and let Alex burn some energy. We walked around the town of Warwick for awhile, then had afternoon tea. We got take-out for dinner that night and ate it back in our room.
Friday, May 30th – We were supposed to meet the rest of the team in London for the day, but they were all re-routed, except for Nathan. So the four of us drove downtown, had to sell a kidney to pay for parking, had lunch at an awesome Japanese restaurant, then walked over to where the Parliament Building and Big Ben were and took a few pictures. Then, we drove back to the airport, returned the car, checked in, and waited for a gate assignment for our flight to Luanda.
Wednesday, June 04, 2008
You Know You're In Africa When...
- you soak your salad veggies in bleach water before eating them.
- you flush a toilet with the water you just soaked your veggies in and take a “military shower” to conserve water.
- you wash your feet before going to bed.
- you walk down a street that’s been literally paved with garbage.
- a church service starts a half hour late, then lasts for over three hours.
- you put your toddler’s carseat in a van, realize the van has no seatbelts, but strap the kid in anyway because that’s what he’s used to, and try not to worry too much about it. Later, your husband figures out how to strap the carseat in using a luggage strap and a carabiner.
- you drink and brush your teeth with water that’s been put through a filter.
- the exuberance and joy of a worship service is enough to bring tears to your eyes.
- you go for days without checking your email or watching TV.
- you walk out the front gate into an open air market where you buy bananas for your breakfast and bread for your supper.
- you cut up a chocolate bar to make chocolate chip cookies.
- your husband wears a short-sleeve shirt, tie, and red and white basketball shoes to church
- Memphis drivers start to seem tame and well-mannered.
This is a running list that I will be adding to this month while we are in Angola. So far, everything has gone really well. We have been in Luanda for the past several days, just getting acclimated and taking care of some business. Tomorrow, we will be heading out on our 17-day tour around the country. We thank you for your prayers for our health and safety and ask that they continue.

